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Most of us, in our daily lives, do not think about rape at all. Women, however, do. When I ask women what they do in their daily lives because of the threat of sexual violence, they offer a long list of actions and thought processes – everything from paying attention to where they park their cars to having a man’s voice on their answering machine to holding their keys as a weapon when walking across a parking lot. Every action of women within a rape culture is tainted by that culture. Going to get their mail, driving to work, going out with friends – none of these actions is “free.” One way of thinking about this is to realize that regardless of the statistics about how many women experience a rape or attempted rape within their lifetime, 100% of women experience the threat of rape within a rape culture. This means that all women’s lives are impacted.

Pornography, Lad Mags, Video Games and Boys:
Reviving the Canary in the Cultural Coalmine
Matthew B. Ezzell (via iwillnotshavemyvagina)

I always walk with my keys out after dark. I will gouge your eyes out.

(via robot-heart-politics)

See, my mom taught me to gauge out an attacker’s eyes with my thumbs. The keys (or optional metal nail file, if you carry those) are out because they can be jabbed violently and directly into either the stomach or interior thigh and then pulled up as hard as possible.

I was maybe 12 years old when she thought it was necessary to teach me these defense tactics. THIS is rape culture.

(via kungfucarrie)

My dad taught me how to break a nose in both a fatal and nonfatal fashion, how to blind an attacker, how to hit the kidneys forcefully enough to momentarily debilitate, at what angle to knee or elbow the groin from several different positions to best debilitate, and told me to scream “fire” instead of “rape.” He taught me these things when I was eleven years old, and he taught me because my mother couldn’t talk about sexual assault due to post-traumatic stress. This is rape culture.

(via keatscommajohn)

Reblogged for the incredible quote, and the equally incredible commentary. Thanks brad-t for submitting the link to me.

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    hopefully I can find this article later cause it looks like an interesting read
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    100% of women experience the threat of rape within a rape culture. Yup. Sometimes us girls in research talk about this...
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